Men in general are not very expressive with emotions in words and they tend to feel to express anything with action rather than telling it. Men in love? Don’t even ask.. Harder that quantum physics to understand.
” Men in love , Often don’t express their love for you”
Well! We come across few men who show their affection to their partner by buying expensive gifts, taking her on a holiday, takes her on dinner dates and the partner definitely posts it on social media with various hashtags and what not? But those epic displays of affection just set the bar way too high. People begin to build up grand expectations as to what a man’s love should look like. Which their genuine attempts at expressing affection often go unappreciated or go unnoticed.
Look for the sign, try to understand the genuine effort he takes to show you his love.Well, he might not necessarily tell you every single day that he deeply loves you, but he’ll do little things that show you that he cares and Trust me, you’ll know it when a man is in love from deep within.
He shows Respect
This is the foundation for everything that follows. If a man does not respect the woman he’s with, he’ll only see her as something little more than an object to fulfill his fantasies or make him feel wanted which means he doesn’t love her. He may lust after her but that is not love.
When a man truly adores his partner, they are equals in his eyes. He talks to her not as someone who should be following orders or bending to his will and values but as someone with valid ideas, viewpoints and feelings.
He will treat you like you are his best friend
When I say, he will treat you like his best friend which means he is going to annoy the shit out of you and tease you till death. Maybe you might not understand and you’ll probably think he does that to hurt you because we woman don’t behave like that with our best friends but that is how men work.
So, don’t get offended when he tries to pass a joke at you or tease you, You get back at him with a comeback and he’ll love it. It is only the Disney movie the Prince Charming is all romantic when he is in love, but this is real life & in real life their is no place for just romance. Btw, just romance is boring as hell!
He will be honest
There’s no shortage of men out there who can put on a really convincing mask. They’ll say all the right things to make themselves appear like the ‘perfect man’ but guess what? They are not. But, a man who loves you will stand by his values, even if she tugs him in the opposite direction.
Why? Because he knows the value of honesty in a relationship. He’s not going to mislead his partner, only to disappoint her down the road.
He will be a great listener
When he listens he remembers, he will remember most of what you say because he listens to everything you say whether he likes it or not. He will remember all the important dates and he will definitely take interest in everything what makes you happy.
He will fight with you & for you.
Yes, fights are important in a relationship. Why do you fight? Because you care about the subject. You obviously don’t fight for something that is not important to you, right?
Then he fights for you, no matter how hard the relationship gets, he will fight for that woman he loves. He knows true love is not easily replaceable. He knows that if he lets the love of his life walk away, he may never find a woman like her again. So he fights.
He makes sacrifices for your happiness
If a man decides to sacrifice what he most appreciates or wants for your happiness, it is clear that he is deeply in love. He might want to do what he loves or might as well just hang out with his boys but if you insist something, he will stick to what makes you happy and puts you as his first priority. But wait.. If you love him, you’ll let him do what he wants to ( That is a whole other topic).
He will tell the world about your relationship.
If he tells his friends and family about your relationship then he definitely loves you, maybe family in the later stage of your relationship but friends and new people you meet, it is a must he tells. Which means, he is proud of you being his girlfriend and he has nothing to be scared about.
He talks about his future with you.
Look for this sign, If he talks about his future and you in it. Definitely he is in love with you, which means he is thinking about a long term commitment with you and he wants you in his life throughout. A man would never talk about his future with you unless he really means to see you in it.
If these are the things he does for you, then don’t ever doubt his love for you. He might not be expressive but don’t let go of someone who loves you. Like mentioned before, One last thing : If he truly loves you, you’ll know it from deep within.
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